Father’s Day. A day meant to celebrate those men who have handled their business, been an integral part of their children’s lives & have left their footprint on their families. The reality is father’s are mostly under appreciated and taken for granted; they play second fiddle to ma dukes & it isn’t even close. No matter what good or how many sacrifices a father has made, mom’s always take top billing. When something goes wrong – dad’s fault. When relationships end – what did dad do?!? When the children have to finally fend for themselves – dad never helped. When decisions or advices are given – let me see what mom says or the enteral “…well mom thinks….” It’s crazy to me. Now all good moms deserve kudos, for sure! I mean I love my momma dearly and that love is well deserved, but I loved my dad just as much; appreciated all he did and provided. I tried to let him know whenever I could how much too. The advices given, the life lessons, the time spent coaching, car pooling etc. At times it’s like we are just participants in their lives. Any news to share, we have to hope the wives fill us in. Any mistakes or tumbles occur moms are given first crack at resolving or providing comfort. God forbid a father makes a mistake or says the wrong thing, the backlash is swift and lasts a while; for mothers – maybe an hour or two. For you step-dads out there, this is magnified. At times it feels like you fall behind not only mom, but friends, family members, social media and the family pet! Good Father’s take solace in knowing they are doing all they can, as best as they can, in making sure their charges grow up to be honorable and responsible adults. We have to keep pushing forward, unnoticed to make sure all ends well. Keep providing, protecting and loving. It’s what good dads do. So for all you good dads out there, enjoy your one day in the sun. Take in all your efforts, love them all the same and smile knowing you are doing one hell of a job!
Happy Father’s Day my good brothers!
There are two things we give our children – one is roots the other is wings.